My late grandmother who born 1908 and died at 98 in 2006 was brought up by her grandmother and uncle Robert who she remembered vividly leaving for war and never returning, her grandmother Mary never believed he was killed and left her front door unlocked with a light at night incase he returned, sadly he never did and knowone really ever knew what had happened untill 2004 when I found sketchy reports of what really happened but no known grave just his name on the thiepval memorial, at least my grandmother had some closure before she died, 100 

James Morleu